"we're both so young and we both have our whole lives ahead of us, um, i feel like that's such a big decision you have to make, so, to have someone else in your life that could influence that decision or, change your mind on something you wanted to do or chase your dreams or something like that, um, i just think it wouldn't be fair, and we both have such big dreams and big goals that we're pursuing...
and i know we kind of started this thing together, so..."